I'm Learning Few Things In My Life

I've learned that we don't have to change friends if we understand that friends change.
I've learned that no matter how good a friend is, they're going to hurt you every once in a while and you must forgive them for that.
I've learned that true friendship continues to grow, even over the longest distance. The same goes for true love.
I've learned that you can do something in an instant that will give you heartache for life.
I've learned that it's taking me a long time to become the person I want to be.
I've learned that you should always leave loved ones with loving words. It may be the last time you see them.
I've learned that you can keep going long after you can't.
I've learned that we are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel.
I've learned that either you control your attitude or it controls you.
I've learned that regardless of how hot and steamy a relationship is at first, the passion fades and there had better be something else to take its place.
I've learned that heroes are the people who do what has to be done when it needs to be done, regardless of the consequences.

I've learned that money is a lousy way of keeping score.
I've learned that my best friend and I can do anything or nothing and have the best time.
I've learned that sometimes the people you expect to kick you when you're down, will be the ones to help you get back up.
I've learned that sometimes when I'm angry I have the right to be angry, but that doesn't give me the right to be cruel.
I've learned that just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have.
I've learned that maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you've had and what you've learned from them, and less to do with how many years you have lived.

I've learned that it isn't always enough to be forgiven by others. Sometimes you have to learn to forgive yourself.
I've learned that no matter how bad your heart is broken the world doesn't stop for your grief.
I've learned that our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, but we are responsible for who we become.
I've learned that just because two people argue, it doesn't mean they don't love each other And just because they don't argue, it doesn't mean they do love each other.
I've learned that you shouldn't be so eager to find out a secret. It could change your life forever.
I've learned that two people can look at the same thing and see something totally different.
I've learned that your life can be changed in a matter of hours by people who don't even know you.
I've learned that even when you think you have no more to give, when a friend cries out to you you will find the strength to help.
I've learned that credentials on the wall do not make you a decent human being.
I've learned that the people you care about most in life are sometimes taken from you too soon………….

Allow Your Own Inner Light to Guide You

Allow Your Own Inner Light to Guide You
There comes a time when you must stand alone.

You must feel confident enough within yourself to follow your own dreams.

You must be willing to make sacrifices.

You must be capable of changing and rearranging your priorities so that your final goal can be achieved.

Sometimes, familiarity and comfort need to be challenged.

There are times when you must take a few extra chances and create your own realities.

Be strong enough to at least try to make your life better.

Be confident enough that you won't settle for a compromise just to get by.

Appreciate yourself by allowing yourself the opportunities to grow, develop, and find your true sense of purpose in this life.

Don't stand in someone else's shadow when it's your sunlight that should lead the way.

Course Year-Round

If you want to become efficient at anything in life, it’s likely you’ll need some education to get you where you want to be. Assuming you have the interest, it’s likely cost, value, and accessibility/timing will be the three largest factors in determining whether or not you’ll take the steps necessary to acquire training.

The definition of value and investment likely means something different for you than it does to the next person, but the definition of accessibility is likely to be universal.

Some Thoughts To Be Ponder

God has promised:

Strength for the day,

Rest for the labor,

Light for the way,

Grace for the trials,

Help from above,

Unfailing sympathy,

Undying Love.

The Lord is near to all who call on Him, to all who call on Him in truth.

Every morning lean thine arms awhile upon the windowsill of heaven and gaze upon the Lord. Then with that vision in thy heart, turn strong to meet the day.

Prayer should be the key of the morning, and the lock of the night.

When home is ruled according to God's Word, angels might be ask to stay with us, and they would not themself out of their element.

A smile cost nothing but gives much. It enriches those who receive, without making poorer those who give. It takes but a moment, but the memory of it last forever.

There is in every righteous womans heart a spark of heavenly fire, which lies dormant in the broad daylight of prosperety, but which kindles up and beams and blaze in the dark of adversity.

Love is patient, love is kind, love does not delight in evil, but rejoice with the truth. It always protects, always trust, always hopes, always persevere.

Computers are useless. They can only give answers.

Great minds discuss ideas, average minds discuss events, small minds discuss people.

All of us must become better informed. It is necessary for us to learn from others' mistakes. You will not live long enough to make them all yourself.

Half-truths are like half a brick-- they can be thrown farther.

The more you sweat in peace, the less you bleed in war.

Good ideas are not adopted automatically. They must be driven into practice with courageous patience.

If you are going to sin, sin against God, not the bureaucracy. God will forgive you but the bureaucracy won't.

The only way to make a difference in the world is to put ten times as much effort into everything as anyone else thinks is reasonable. It doesn't leave any time for golf or cocktails, but it gets things done.

Today I Woke Up

Today I woke up and I was everything I wanted to be.

I forgave myself of everything that had ever made me feel ashamed.

I loved everyone everywhere...even those who hurt me.

I sent love to those who have lost their way.

I wasn't afraid of anything anymore.

I realized I was endowed with all the power of the Universe,
to think... to feel... and create,
and to love all that I have created.

I reveled in the realization that this is the sum total of all I have intended
for myself to date.

I realized that right NOW is the only moment
there ever really is, was, or will be.

I knew that all my past,
except what was good, was gone.

I made a pact with myself never to forget...
to hold this feeling as if it were a little child
for indeed, it was.

A Strategy For Success

A Strategy For Success

Few people would disagree that your conscious thoughts drive what you actually do on a short term basis.

But it’s not so obvious that your subconscious thoughts determine how you live your Life from day to day, month to month and year to year.

And I’m not talking about such things as always having lunch at about the same time each day or taking the dog for a walk every morning, but unconsciously thinking that other people are somehow ‘better’ than you because they are rich or that they’re better looking than you or maybe cleverer.

I believe that if we are really honest with ourselves, we will come to realize that we genuinely have so much talent and ability that we simply MUST find a way of releasing it and turning it to our advantage.

The strategy of Change Your Thoughts, Change Your Life will enable you to quickly see that there is no earthly reason why you cannot be at least as good as everybody else.

But it’s no good just paying lip service to a phrase that sounds good and rolls of the tongue easily.

What’s really needed is a practical strategy based on your firm belief that ‘change your thoughts, change your Life’ is something that can have a very deep influence on your future!

But its very important to realize that change your thoughts change your life is NOT a mantra!

It needs to be something that you know rather than something you have to keep repeating to convince yourself that it's right for you!

If you know its truth and value, ALL of your power is directed towards achieving your aims, not wasted on routinely repeating to yourself a phrase which can so easily become meaningless!
   
Practical Ways To Implement The
‘Change Your Thoughts, Change Your Life’ Strategy

So what is the way forward?

First, it is most important to understand and believe that you really do have truly amazing subconscious mind power - just like most other people. But, like most other people, you are only using a tiny part of what you've got!

Second, if you really want to bring about a permanent change in your Life, it is no good just wishing and dreaming of success – sustained positive action is required!
Remember the principle is change your thoughts, change your Life. Wishes and dreams are thoughts which need to be changed into actions.

Third, you need to find ways to release your Subconscious Mind Power to be able to make consistent progress.

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Some Thoughts that Changes Life

Anger is a condition in which the tongue works faster than the mind .


You can't change the past, but you can ruin the present by worrying over the future!


Love...and you shall be loved.

God always gives His best to those who leave the choice with Him.


All people smile in the same language.


Everyone needs to be loved... especially when they do not deserve it.

The real measure of a man's wealth is what he has invested in eternity.

Laughter is God's sunshine.

Everyone has beauty but not everyone sees it.

It's important for parents to live the same things they teach.


Thank God for what you have, TRUST GOD for what you need.

If you fill your heart with regrets of yesterday and the worries of tomorrow, you have no today to be thankful for.

Man looks at outward appearance but the God looks within.

The choice you make today will usually affect tomorrow.

Take time to laugh, for it is the music of the soul.


Patience is the ability to idle your motor when you feel like stripping your gears.

Love is strengthened by working through conflicts together.


Harsh words break no bones but they do break hearts.

To get out of a difficulty, one usually must go through it.

We take for granted the things that we should be giving thanks for.

Love is the only thing that can be divided without being diminished.

Happiness is enhanced by others but does not depend upon others.

For every minute you are angry with someone, you lose 60 seconds of happiness that you can never get back.

Do what you can, for who you can, with what you have, and where you are.